A former party promoter and real estate agent, Lawner says he was inspired to launch Snctm after watching the aforementioned Kubrick film. So I got in touch with Snctm's founder, Damon Lawner, 47. I ran into some friends who had attended previous Snctm gatherings, and they referred to it as “the most glamorous sex party we ever went to.' 'You have to go,' they told me. I first heard about Snctm while at Soho House in West Hollywood, a members-only club for Hollywood's creative crowd. It’s a straight guy’s total fantasy, like Cirque du Soleil meets a Victoria’s Secret fashion show. Everyone is fit and attractive, and everyone is wearing a mask. Per the dress code, the men are wearing tuxedos, and the women, who outnumber the men by 6 to 1, are wearing La Perla bras, garter belts, and high heels. I’m in the inner sanctum of a secret Snctm sex party, and it’s a spectacular scene. Celebrities like Gwyneth Paltrow are rumored to have attended Snctm events.Women get in for free, but must undergo a rigorous application process.It costs men almost $2000 to attend one Snctm event, and a lifetime membership costs $75,000.Snctm is a secret sex party based in Los Angeles.
